{"id":2459,"date":"2008-01-07T01:21:57","date_gmt":"2008-01-07T01:21:57","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T21:00:00","slug":"hollandada-yasam-hakkinda-bilmedikleriniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/2008\/01\/07\/hollandada-yasam-hakkinda-bilmedikleriniz\/","title":{"rendered":"Hollanda&#8217;da ya\u015fam hakk\u0131nda bilmedikleriniz.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(ya da sizin bilip de, benim \u00f6nceden bilmediklerim ama art\u0131k biliyor olduklar\u0131m)<br \/>\n(ya da &#8220;&#8230; ve bilmek isteyip de soramad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z&#8230;&#8221; 8P)<\/p>\n<p>Burada uygulamas\u0131 \u00e7ok kolay olan ve hayat\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran pek \u00e7ok \u015fey g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Misal i\u00e7in bkz. a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki resim:<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"images\/nl2.jpg\" alt=\"Hollanda Lalala\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>En soldaki mor \u015fey, fena halde TRT&#8217;de Ece&#8217;nin \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi \u00e7ocuk program\u0131 olan &#8220;Elma Kurdu Nam Nam&#8221;\u0131n ba\u015f kuklalar\u0131ndan Hopi&#8217;ye benzeyen <i>elyakmaz<\/i> (bu terimi san\u0131r\u0131m ben uydurmu\u015fum &#8211; hani \u015fu eldivenler var ya, f\u0131r\u0131ndan bir \u015fey al\u0131rken, eliniz yanmas\u0131n diye kullan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z&#8230;) Onun sa\u011f\u0131nda, \u00fczerinde bilmemne kaas yazan arkada\u015f, rendelenmi\u015f ka\u015far peyniri olup, as\u0131l s\u00fcrprizi pakedinin a\u00e7ma\/kapama k\u0131sm\u0131nda zira amcalar bunu kilitli torba mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yapm\u0131\u015flar, her daim taze; lastik, tel, selobant u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yor. Onun yan\u0131nda, yandan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz koyu ye\u015fil paket Pandan Rijst (Rice). Burada \u00c7inli n\u00fcfusun yo\u011funlu\u011fundan olsa gerek, 4-5 farkl\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fit pirin\u00e7 var, bu Pandan Rijst hem dolgun, hem leziz hem de cinsinden olsa gerek, ne kadar su verirseniz verin (ve tabii ki makul \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerde), her daim ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 sonu\u00e7 al\u0131yorsunuz. Bu pakedin mucizesi ise bir de\u011fil, tam iki tane! \u0130lk olarak, en sa\u011fdaki mavi s\u00fct kutusunda da g\u00f6rece\u011finiz \u00fczere, yan taraf\u0131nda \u00f6l\u00e7ekli \u015feffaf bir b\u00f6lge var, b\u00f6ylelikle pakette ne kadar kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015fta \u015f\u0131p! diye anl\u0131yorsunuz. Pirin\u00e7 i\u00e7in pek gerekli bir \u00f6zellik olmasa da, s\u00fct\u00fcn durumundan haberdar olman\u0131z bazen nefsinizi kurtarabiliyor. Gelelim pirin\u00e7 pakedimizin ikinci \u00f6zelli\u011fine: ben resme bak\u0131nca g\u00f6rebiliyorum ama belki bildi\u011fim i\u00e7indir. Pakedin a\u011fz\u0131 hali haz\u0131rda kal\u0131nca ve uygun ebatta bir selobantla tutturulmu\u015f geliyor. Siz de kulland\u0131ktan sonra, rahatl\u0131kla kapat\u0131yorsunuz, ta\u015fma s\u0131zma damlama olmuyor. S\u00fct\u00fcn solunda, \u00fczerinde &#8220;Bar-Le-Duc&#8221; yazan kutuda su var. \u015ei\u015feyle bir \u015fey al\u0131rsan\u0131z, pet \u015fi\u015fe bile olsa, \u015fi\u015fe paras\u0131 kesiyorlar. Burada \u0130talya&#8217;daki gibi soda d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yok ama pek su sat\u0131lm\u0131yor zira herkes har\u0131l har\u0131l musluktan i\u00e7iyor. Ben pek tad\u0131n\u0131 sevmedim, o y\u00fczden biz d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan al\u0131yoruz ama bizden ba\u015fka alan da g\u00f6rmedim \u015fimdiye kadar. Yine dikkat ederseniz, s\u00fct kutusunda da, su kutusunda da d\u00f6kme yeri e\u011fimli. T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de bizi \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131kartan bir \u015feydi bu e\u011fim, daha do\u011frusu e\u011fimsizlik meselesi. Meyve suyu al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, barda\u011fa koyana kadar, i\u00e7indeki s\u0131v\u0131 ilk d\u00f6k\u00fclme an\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131n hepsini kaplad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in hava s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r, \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fcz ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z oran\u0131z buran\u0131z keyfiniz zevkiniz batar, sinir olursunuz. ama i\u015fte \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bu kadar basit.<\/p>\n<p>Gelelim ikinci resmimize:<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"images\/nl1.jpg\" alt=\"Hollanda Lalala2\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Bu resimde daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn diye selobanta zum yapt\u0131m, ondan ba\u015flayay\u0131m: bant\u0131n \u00e7eperleri zig-zag gidiyor, b\u00f6ylelikle kullanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bant kadar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131ktan sonra, koparmak i\u00e7in a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131za g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp salya s\u00fcm\u00fck yapmak yerine, en yak\u0131n zig-zagdan biraz \u00e7ekip, kolayl\u0131kla kopar\u0131yorsunuz. En soldaki telefona benzer tu\u015flu beyaz alet ise, internet bankac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kullan\u0131lan kod \u00fcretici. Bankan\u0131n sitesine ba\u011flan\u0131p, hesap numar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve kart numar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 giriyorsunuz, o da size 7-8 haneli bir say\u0131 \u00fcretip, bunu bu alete girmenizi istiyor. Siz alete kart\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tak\u0131yorsunuz, \u015fifrenizi istiyor (buradan da anl\u0131yoruz ki, \u015fifreniz d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f \u015fekilde kartta tutuluyor. E\u011fer Meren buray\u0131 okusayd\u0131 ya da ben onun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinlemi\u015f olsa idim, parola \/ \u015fifre fark\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok z\u00fcgel veren bir \u00f6rnek v\u00fccuda getirmi\u015f olacak idim ;), \u015fifrenizi giriyorsunuz, bu sefer internet \u015fubesinin verdi\u011fi say\u0131y\u0131 istiyor, sonras\u0131nda da sizin verdi\u011finiz bilgilerle bu bilgiyi yo\u011furup bamba\u015fka bir say\u0131 \u00fcretiyor. Siz de bu say\u0131y\u0131 giriyorsunuz, bye bye annemizin k\u0131zl\u0131k soyad\u0131, bye bye do\u011fdu\u011fumuz yer! \u00c7aydanl\u0131k muhabbetine girece\u011fim \u015fimdi ama ben de biliyorum, bunlardan T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de de var (tea-light olay\u0131) demliyorsunuz \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, koyuyorsunuz oraya, alt\u0131na da bir tane mum, oh, siz i\u00e7erken s\u0131cak tutuyor deminizi. Lakin sorulmas\u0131 gereken soru, T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de 105 tane mumu 3 avroya alabiliyor musunuz (1), e\u011fer alabiliyorsan\u0131z bile orada x kazan\u0131yorken verdi\u011finiz 3 avro ile burada xxx kazan\u0131p verdi\u011finiz 3 avro ayn\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r? Bir de Lipton burada yeni bir seri \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131, piramit seri, oralara da gelirse tavsiye ederim, Earl Grey&#8217;inde yasemin var ve i\u00e7ti\u011fim en iyi Earl Grey&#8217;lerden biri. Bir de serinin orman meyvelerini ald\u0131m, kokusundan yenmiyor, nefis bir \u015fey, tad\u0131 yo\u011fun yaln\u0131z. Bir tane bu orman meyvelerinin piramitinden iki tane de Earl Grey piramitlerinden at\u0131p demliyorum, ohh ohh ohh&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bir de \u015fu mesele var, okulla ilgili, asl\u0131nda buna ayr\u0131 bir giri\u015f yapacakt\u0131m ama iki ayd\u0131r b\u00f6yle deyip duruyorum, iyisi mi buraya alay\u0131m. Kayna\u011f\u0131m TUDelft&#8217;in verdi\u011fi &#8220;International Student Guide&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p><b>Teaching methods and Cultural Differences<\/b><br \/>\n<i>Student &#8211; staff relationships<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You will soon notice that Dutch people are very direct in their manner of speaking. They are also not afraid to criticize others. This assertiveness and directness is not limited to interpersonal relationships outside TU Delft. Also in student-staff relationships, the Dutch tend to find being honest and open far more constructive than being silent or indirect about something for the sake of peace of mind. If you know how to deal with this openness, it can allow for greater clarity in communicating with others, both within and outside TU Delft. Most important, remember it is (generally) not intended to offend.<\/p>\n<p>Student-staff relationships are typically less formal than most non-Western countries. For example, students often call members of staff by their first name, professors as well as lecturers. This may seem a bit strange or even inappropriate to you, but it is not an expression of disrespect. In the Netherlands, people feel that respect is something you earn based on what you do and the personality you are; it does not stem from your wealth, your position or the size of your car. Informality, however, does not mean that lecturers and professors expect to have social contact with their students outside the University; it is purely professional working relationship. Members of the staff do not expect to be offered gifts of any sort. A lecturer must assess his students impartially, and anyone accepting a gift from a student may be seen as compromising his or her integrity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(ya da sizin bilip de, benim \u00f6nceden bilmediklerim ama art\u0131k biliyor olduklar\u0131m) (ya da &#8220;&#8230; ve bilmek isteyip de soramad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z&#8230;&#8221; 8P) Burada uygulamas\u0131 \u00e7ok kolay olan ve hayat\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran pek \u00e7ok \u015fey g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Misal i\u00e7in bkz. a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki resim: En soldaki mor \u015fey, fena halde TRT&#8217;de Ece&#8217;nin \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi \u00e7ocuk program\u0131 olan &#8220;Elma Kurdu Nam Nam&#8221;\u0131n &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/2008\/01\/07\/hollandada-yasam-hakkinda-bilmedikleriniz\/\" class=\"more-link\">Okumaya devam et<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Hollanda&#8217;da ya\u015fam hakk\u0131nda bilmedikleriniz..&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2459"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2459"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2459\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}