{"id":6603,"date":"2018-07-26T17:49:10","date_gmt":"2018-07-26T14:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/?p=6603"},"modified":"2018-07-26T18:44:44","modified_gmt":"2018-07-26T15:44:44","slug":"eda-ile-ben","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/2018\/07\/26\/eda-ile-ben\/","title":{"rendered":"Eda ile ben"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00fcrkiye’ye d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra ne mutlu ki pek \u00e7ok g\u00fczel \u015fey oldu: Hacettepe’ye girmem, oradaki g\u00fczel insanlar, her biri ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir d\u00fcnya olan \u00f6\u011frencilerim… ama ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde T\u00fcrkiye’ye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn bana kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 en de\u011ferli \u015feyin \u00e7ok sevgili arkada\u015f\u0131m Eda oldu\u011funun iyice ay\u0131rd\u0131na vard\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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Eda ile Ben, ilk tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u0131llardan bir resim…<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Pek \u00e7ok arkada\u015f\u0131mla ne ilk tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn\u00fc, ne de o an\u0131 hat\u0131rlayamazsam da, Eda ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tarih de, vesile de \u00e7ok net: 18 Ekim 2014, Cumartesi — neredeyse 4 sene olacak tan\u0131\u015fal\u0131 ama o d\u00f6rt senede en az\u0131ndan bir 20 y\u0131ll\u0131k yol kat ettik (b\u00f6yle \u00a0say\u0131 kestirme i\u015flerini de benden rahat yapan yoktur bu arada — derslerde de hep b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6zg\u00fcvenle “%70’inde…, %99’unda…” diye kestirip atar\u0131m (hemen ard\u0131ndan da sorumluluk reddimi<\/em> (disclaimer<\/em>‘a bir g\u00fczel kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulamam\u0131\u015f\u0131z!) ibraz ederim: “aman siz sak\u0131n ciddiye almay\u0131n bu kestirimlerimi!” diye)… ne diyorduk, evet, nereden baksan\u0131z 20 y\u0131ll\u0131k arkada\u015f\u0131m benim Eda. Hacettepe’ye ba\u015fvuran adaylar\u0131n almakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc oldu\u011fu bir \u00e7e\u015fit pedagojik formasyon kursunda (“E\u011fiticilerin e\u011fitimi”) tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k (benim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir itiraza yorumda bulununca), sonras\u0131nda “Hacettepe’ye kabul olursan(\u0131z), gelince haberle\u015felim, kamp\u00fcs\u00fc gezdireyim” dedi, ben de Hacettepe’ye kabul olunca, gelince haberle\u015ftik, kamp\u00fcs gezintilerimiz b\u00f6ylece ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f oldu (o g\u00fcn bug\u00fcnd\u00fcr, h\u00e2l\u00e2 da hemen her g\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiririz, ne bitmez kamp\u00fcsm\u00fc\u015f! 8).<\/p>\n

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Eda ile yine bir g\u00fcn Hacettepe cengellerinde gezerken… (23\/05\/2018 – @OBM)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Eda ile pek \u00e7ok ortak y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz var (hatta baba taraflar\u0131ndan az kald\u0131 akraba bile \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorduk!) ama iki insan karakter olarak birbirine ne kadar z\u0131t olabilirse, biz de o kadar z\u0131t\u0131z (benim Myers-Briggs\u00a0INFP-A<\/a> ki\u015fili\u011fime do\u011frudan kontra ESTJ-T<\/a> ile geldi! — hatta benim karakter analizimde \u00f6zellikle z\u0131t arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011fa \u00f6rnek verdikleri tam da Eda’n\u0131n karakter yap\u0131s\u0131 idi:<\/p>\n

A friendship with an ESTJ on the other hand, governed by social conventions and community participation as they are, would almost be a non-sequitur \u2013 though INFPs may find the idea of being paired with their opposite fascinating enough to outweigh the practical challenges to such a friendship.*<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hacettepe’deki g\u00fcnlerim arkada\u015f\u0131m sayesinde daha da g\u00fczel ge\u00e7iyor, s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131nca mesajla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z, o s\u0131rada me\u015fgul de\u011filsek \u00e7\u0131kar bir tur atar\u0131z, daha da vaktimiz varsa \u00e7e\u015fitli markalar\u0131 (QuickChina, Starbucks… 8) ihya ederiz. B\u00f6yle madde madde yazar gibi oldum, anlatmas\u0131 zor insan\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, o y\u00fczden do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fcme gelelim.<\/p>\n

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Ron Swanson ve Treasure Hunt (1) [Kaynak: April Walsh \/ medium.com<\/a>]<\/figcaption><\/figure>Bir insan\u0131n sabah ofisine geldi\u011finde, gizemli bir mektup bulmas\u0131, ve sadece ikinizin anlayabilece\u011fi bir s\u00fcr\u00fc \u015fey olmas\u0131 (evet, “inside joke” demeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum), b\u00f6yle bir dosta sahip olmak ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fanst\u0131r anlatamam. Kap\u0131mdaki mektupla ba\u015flayan “do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc hazine av\u0131m” makaronlu bir pastayla muhte\u015fem sonu\u00e7land\u0131! (ve evet, ayn\u0131 Ron Swanson gibi, bir yandan \u00f6fleyip p\u00f6flerken, bir yandan da elimde sihirli de\u011fne\u011fim, ne\u015fe i\u00e7inde kamp\u00fcs turu at\u0131yordum — ismi laz\u0131m de\u011fil, arkada\u015f iki dakika bir yere oturup dinlenmeme bile izin vermedi! 8P). Diyorum, yaz\u0131nca b\u00f6yle bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131, ne\u015fe p\u0131nar\u0131 minnak bir \u015fey yaz\u0131yormu\u015f gibi oluyor ama bildi\u011finiz Sururi Bey i\u015fte! Eda sayesindedir ki, bir dolu g\u00fczel \u015feye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, keyfini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yorum. Yak\u0131n zamanda Eda ile Bar\u0131\u015f’\u0131n da tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ile birlikte s\u00fcper bir \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olduk: d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa biz bir k\u00f6\u015fede e\u011fleniyor olaca\u011f\u0131z, siz ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7aresine bak\u0131n!<\/p>\n

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Ron Swanson ve Treasure Hunt (2) [Kaynak: April Walsh \/ medium.com<\/a>]<\/figcaption><\/figure>(Ne kadar m\u0131 minnak? Bar\u0131\u015f’\u0131n bize sard\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 aman da aman \u015fu 4 a.m. shower<\/em><\/a> stripleri kadar minnak!<\/p>\n
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Let’s dance all day, every day. [4am shower \/ Guy Kopsombut<\/a>]<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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Ne?.. Ne var?..<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Pofff… Ne \u00e7ok g\u00f6rselli bir yaz\u0131 oldu. Yazar\u0131m yine. Belki.<\/p>\n

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Eda ile ben. (Hangimiz hangimiz s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fim)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00fcrkiye’ye d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra ne mutlu ki pek \u00e7ok g\u00fczel \u015fey oldu: Hacettepe’ye girmem, oradaki g\u00fczel insanlar, her biri ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir d\u00fcnya olan \u00f6\u011frencilerim… ama ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde T\u00fcrkiye’ye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn bana kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 en de\u011ferli \u015feyin \u00e7ok sevgili arkada\u015f\u0131m Eda oldu\u011funun iyice ay\u0131rd\u0131na vard\u0131m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[25],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6603"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6603"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6603\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6616,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6603\/revisions\/6616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emresururi.com\/blogs\/sururi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}